Relationship Therapy

Your Relationship Counts - Whatever Shape it Takes.

Couples.
Polycule chaos.
Open relationships with fifteen Google calendars.
Ethical non-monogamy that feels… less ethical than advertised.

If you’re in a relationship—or several—and something feels off, therapy can help. You don’t have to be monogamous, married, or on the brink of breaking up to get support. You just have to be human and even slightly overwhelmed.

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Most relationship issues aren’t about using the right words. They’re about what happens inside your body when closeness, conflict, or vulnerability shows up.

Using all the fancy therapies I have in my tool box (e.g., EMDR, IFS, Gottman Method, EFT), we'll work through:

• attachment wounds

• trauma responses

• jealousy and envy without shaming it

• rupture and repair

• the parts of you that panic, disappear, or go scorched earth

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The goal isn’t perfection.
It’s:

• fewer blowups

• faster repair

• clearer consent

• better boundaries

• hotter sex  

• and relationships that feel stabilizing instead of destabilizing

You can love deeply and feel grounded.
You can have autonomy and connection.
You can be committed without losing yourself.

You can be feral and adoring.

You know, be those people who bite each other because you love hard like that.